God Created Love-Jesus Fulfilled Love

I'm quite sure there have been couples dating "because"their parents felt that this was a perfect match.No doubt some of them married to please Dad and Mom and finally ended up divorcing.Perhaps some stayed together all their life but they were miserable for lack of love.

What a tradegy that parents(some)don't have enough sense to let their grown children make the marriage decision.By all means discourage a marriage if you know that that person has been married before,or if they're not saved and living a wild life or you definitely have a good reason.

But don't try to get them married off just because "you"feel they're meant for it other.First off,what excuse do you have for not training them up right?If you parents would do your job you wouldn't have to worry.Enough on that!

Young unmarried men and women listen up,it's your choice so make it good.If you know you don't love someone,do not marry them to please others.In fact,stop dating them.It is you that is susposed to live with your married mate 'til death departs you.So choose wisely.

God Himself is the creator of love and His Son Jesus fulfilled it BY DYING FOR YOUR SINS and the only true love is between two christians.Marrying someone who is not saved is already 50% defeated as far as your marriage is concerned.Marry into the family of God then He'll guide you to the right lifetime mate.

Love Is Being Subject To Each Other

Marriage is such a beautiful union between man and woman and God specially blesses if it is founded upon Him and His Word,the Holy KJV Bible.And here I'd like to make a statement to go along with what I said yesterday.

By Gods divine authority the man is head of his household and family.The wife is commanded to obey him as her head and leader as well as the children.

However,how sweet and lovely for the husband and wife to love God so much that they are subject to each other.The man considering his wife,her feelings and her best interest.The wife doing exactly the same for her husband.

Husbands,not being sweet and kind to your wife because you have to,but because you "want to." She is given to you by God to cherish,love,and protect.She is the weaker vessel,not in her intelligence,but weaker in body as you are stronger in body.

Husband,that's why you don't flirt,lust after,or have sexual relations with another woman.As a Godly leader and head,you set a good example for your wife and children to follow.Real men love Jesus,read their Bible and has daily prayer for their family and them selves.They also have daily devotion with all their family.

This brings a blessing constantly upon your marriage and draws you close together in love one for another as a family.Dad,if you have your childrens respect,they look to you as their leader,provider,and protector.You are your son and daughters hero.Feel proud of that accomplishment and pray for Gods guidance. Continued...

What If A Woman Is Head Of The Home?

We live in a different time and age where it's ok for the wife to be head of the household...right?Women have their say so over men according to ERA,what does it matter if they are Lesibans?

Well...let's go to the place where all questions and answers are settled by God Almighty Himself,the KJV Bible,the Truth.1 Cor.11:3 says..."The head of the woman is the man"

And of course Christ Jesus is Head of everyone,but most people don't know that yet but they will when they take their last breath if they have not prepared for eternity.

So wives,your husband is your head.He's the one that God says has the leadership in the family unit.You are to submit yourself to him.

However,if your husband is mean to you or the children,that's another story.You do not have to take abuse from any man ladies.A real husband and dad treats his wife and children with the highest respect and regard.He treats them like precious jewels and diamonds.

In return wife,you are to obey and honor him as your leader and head under God.I have heard some women try to say that under the new covenant they are freed from being subject to their husband.Show me where it says that in the Bible.

Rather,it says wives to obey your husband and be subject unto them.Yes you can rebel against that but you'll face God one day when you die.He'll say to depart and be cast into outer darkness,into hell forever.Woe to you ERA women.Hell and the lake of fire will be your home forever.

Being Tempted Is Not Wrong 2

Being tempted is part of life.Ever since Lucifer fell from Gods grace and became the devil,he tempted Eve and from Eve to all men.The devil can bring about temptation but he can not make you.That's up to you.

Therefore being tempted is not wrong as "every"person is tempted.Sin comes when we're drawn away of our own lust.In other words it goes from temptation to actually "wanting" to do the temptation.

Have you ever wondered why night time offers the most temptation?This is when the powers of darkness can get much more sins out in the open.Darkness brings sin as it appears to be hid.It is not hid from God!

And so those that think they are purified after salvation as a second work of grace usually fall back into gross sins.In their mind if not in body.We must remember that after we're saved it is a "daily"walk with God.

You will be tempted as long as you live in this wicked world,but God does not take away your desire to sin.Your strength comes as you read your Bible,pray,and know that God is helping you every step of the way.The Bible says to resist the devil and he will flee.Do that and know that greater is He that is within you than he that is in the world.

Being Tempted Is Not Wrong

It is simply amazing how many people somehow have the idea that being tempted is a terrible sin.The Bible tells us that when we're drawn away of our own lust then that is where the sin comes in.

There is a group of Holiness people(I'm Holiness too as a Christian but the Bible way,not men's way)who say after they get saved,that they start seeking the second work of Grace(Sanctification).Somehow a fire comes from God and takes away any desire to ever sin again.

Well,I believe the Bible says "old things are passed away,behold all things become new" when we get saved.It is not in the Bible what they say and believe,because once a person gets saved,the wilful desire to sin is automatically taken away.But here is where the problem is...

After a person gets saved,as long as they read their Bible and pray daily putting God first,then when temptation comes they'll have power to resist it.But when they don't put God first with Bible reading and praying,then they get weak.

This is where many "fall away"and backslide.They become weak spiritually.Even as one must eat for energy to have strength to work,so must one read their Bible and pray putting God first to have spiritual energy.

In next blog I will continue "being tempted is not wrong."stay tuned friend...

Can There Possibly Be Any Good Mates Left

It would seem in today's sexual revolution that all young ladies and gentlemen are evil.Almost all women from young to old barely cover their bodies in warm weather whether at home,out shopping,or now a days "even in church."

When a young person is coming to maturity they naturally are drawn to the opposite,in other words,men and women are drawn to each other.This is normal and ordained by God.

But if I was a young man today seeking a Holy and Pure young lady,I must admit that I'd probably become disgusted fairly quickly if I was only using my own wits.The girls today dress and act like the evil women did years ago.It didn't take long to know what a bad woman was back then.

The problem today is that nearly all girls and women act and dress like only the evil women did then.It has become common place for most women to have a very low cut attire from their nek to their waist.

Then a very high cut from their knees up to their waist.In other words,very scarce clothing on.

And the young men are wimppy looking,with earrings on and hairstyles that look like the rock stars.They look washed out and washed over and they have no backbone and guts to stand up for anything.

But take heart,God still has a few good men and women that are picked out just for you.Serve and love God with all your heart and wait upon Him.Ask Him for the best and you'll get exactly that.Yes,there are some wonderful mates left for you,the cream of the crop.

Have You Done Your Part

There's been times in my past as a young man(to my shame!)that I placed the blame for something I did on my wife.Only cowards and weak men do that.And I really am ashamed of it.A man with strong morals and principles wouldn't even dream of doing such a thing.

Thank God as I got a few years older,I had wonderful mature friends that taught me to do my part and take resposibilies for my actions on my own shoulders.

It is so easy to push wrong doing on others,especially those who are closest to us.Perhaps that's one of the reasons of so much divorce.

Both husband and wife need to do your part.Take your obligations seriously!Wife,you should do your duties with a smile on your face and let your children see what a wife and Mother of character and integrity you are.Yes,your children are your best critics and they know if you're doing your part.

Dad,be a man!Believe me your wife and children will know if you've done your part as the head of the home and leader of the family.If you're weak surrender to God and ask Him for help.Jesus is always ready to help you grow.

Read your Bible and Pray every day and consider God your best friend and pardner.You will be able to do your part with great success,if you put God first in everything you do.Be a man and do more than your part!